7 Spanish False Friends That Will Embarrass You
Embarazada does not mean embarrassed. Learn 7 Spanish false friends that trip up English speakers, with fixes, memory hooks, and a self-test quiz.
Nativia Team
Spanish is generous with English speakers. Realmente means really, el hospital is the hospital, and half your vocabulary comes free. Then there are the traps. Words that look exactly like English but mean something completely different, and they love to appear in the precise moment where getting it wrong hurts most. I learned most of these in front of witnesses. Here are the seven worst offenders, each with the fix and a memory hook.
Quiz ahead: At the end of this article a short quiz throws fresh sentences at you. Question 6 sends most people to the wrong aisle of the pharmacy.1. Embarazada does not mean embarrassed
You knock over a drink and announce Estoy muy embarazada. (I am very pregnant.) The room hears a surprise pregnancy, not an apology.
What you wanted was Estoy muy avergonzado. (I am very embarrassed.) or simply Qué vergüenza. (How embarrassing.)
Memory hook: embarazada means there is a baby on board. If your cheeks are red, the feeling is vergüenza.
2. Constipado is about your nose
In Spain, Estoy constipado. (I have a cold.) is a completely normal thing to tell a coworker. The word for the other problem is estreñido. This trap bites in both directions, and it bites hardest at the pharmacy counter.
Watch out:
- Estoy constipado means I have a cold, a blocked nose.
- Estoy estreñido means I am constipated. Swap them and you walk out with very much the wrong medicine.
Memory hook: a cold constipates your nose, not your gut.
Reading is step one. Speaking is what makes it stick.
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3. Éxito is not the exit
El concierto fue un éxito. (The concert was a success.) So asking a security guard ¿Dónde está el éxito? (Where is the success?) earns you a confused smile. The way out is la salida (the exit).
Memory hook: every door in the Spanish-speaking world is labeled SALIDA. Éxito is what your Spanish will be if you remember that.
4. Actualmente means currently, not actually
Actualmente vivo en Medellín. (I currently live in Medellín.) is correct. But using it for "actually", as in correcting someone, is the mistake. For that, say en realidad: En realidad, soy de Canadá. (Actually, I am from Canada.)
Memory hook: actualmente talks about the actual moment, right now. En realidad talks about reality.
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5. Realizar is not to realize
Realicé mi sueño de vivir en México. (I fulfilled my dream of living in Mexico.) is beautiful Spanish, because realizar means to carry out or make real. Saying Realicé que era tarde for "I realized it was late" is pure Spanglish. Natives say Me di cuenta de que era tarde. (I realized it was late.)
Memory hook: realizar makes something real. Darse cuenta is your brain handing you the bill, the cuenta.
6. Sensible means sensitive
Mi hermano es muy sensible. (My brother is very sensitive.) He cries at dog videos. If you mean level-headed and reasonable, the word is sensato: Sé sensato y lleva paraguas. (Be sensible and take an umbrella.)
Memory hook: these are swapped twins. Sensible feels, sensato thinks.
7. Molestar just means to bother
The first time someone asked me ¿Te molesta la música? (Does the music bother you?) I froze. Relax. Molestar is completely innocent and you will hear it daily: No te quiero molestar. (I do not want to bother you.)
Memory hook: the Spanish word stayed mild. It is the English cousin that escalated. Never translate it literally in your head.
Test yourself
Fresh sentences, none from above. Pick the right option and check your answers.
Pick the correct option in each question, then check your answers.
1.La fiesta fue todo un .
The party was a total success.
2.A man spills his coffee on a stranger and wants to say he is embarrassed. What does he say?
3. trabajo en Bogotá, pero busco otro empleo.
I currently work in Bogotá, but I am looking for another job.
4.Which sentence says you just realized the shop was closed?
5.Compra un abrigo, sé .
Buy a coat, be sensible.
6.At a pharmacy in Madrid you have a blocked nose and a cough. What do you say?
The cheat sheet
Save this one for your next trip.
Spanish false friends at a glance
| False friend | Really means | You probably meant | Say instead |
|---|---|---|---|
| embarazada | pregnant | embarrassed | avergonzado / avergonzada |
| constipado | having a cold | constipated | estreñido / estreñida |
| éxito | success | exit | la salida |
| actualmente | currently | actually | en realidad |
| realizar | to carry out, to fulfill | to realize | darse cuenta de |
| sensible | sensitive | sensible | sensato / sensata |
| molestar | to bother, to annoy | something much worse | nothing, it is harmless |
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FAQ
What exactly is a false friend?
A word that looks or sounds like an English word but means something different. They come from shared Latin roots that drifted apart over centuries, which is why they feel so trustworthy and betray you anyway.
Do these work the same in Spain and Latin America?
Mostly yes. The one regional note is constipado, which is everyday in Spain, while much of Latin America prefers resfriado (a cold). Embarazada, éxito, and the rest mean the same everywhere.
How do I actually stop mixing them up?
Reading a list once does not stick. Saying the words out loud in a real situation does, because the small shock of almost saying embarazada wires the correction in. Rehearse the pharmacy or the lost-in-a-building scenario in Nativia a few times, and the right word will come out on autopilot when it counts.
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